via gastrogirl
via gastrogirl
Just a little commiserating
for the love of all that is holy… can we take a big step back here? Yes, my ceiling is leaking again.
The points:
My ceiling never leaked or caved in before this renovation.
Every pipe and other thing was INSPECTED by a home inspector. BEFORE I COULD BUY THE HOUSE.
I paid him on time and way more than he quoted.
He still has not finished the work..i.e ceiling fans, painting, hole in a wall.
So. Now.
I have a ceiling that has caved in TWICE. And is now leaking for the third. Several unfinished areas that look horrible and a bathtub that shouldn’t be used because it could cause more damage.
You are damn right I want to talk about it. But not to be upset with you. Everyone refers someone who doesn’t live up to the standards set forth in their mind. Everyone.
It. Is. Ok.
It is my first house. And I am shouldering this burden alone. ALONE. My choice, yes. But that doesn’t mean I don’t deserve sympathy or the benefit of your experience. I deserve all of this. I deserve a shoulder to lean on..because mainly I don’t know everything and it would be damn nice to feel like someone gets it WITH me once in while as opposed to against me all the time.
I don’t think I am asking for the moon.
On the second day of…
I am a big believer that new year’s resolutions are all around beneficial. I don’t often make them verbally/publicly myself but watching family and friends resolve to be healthier, happier, crash diet, etc. lends a sense of camaraderie to the “ultimatums” I have in my own head.
My start to 2012 was filled with miles walked and miles ran. Metaphorically, I hope my beginning was repeated in those that I care about.
Welcome 2012.
via gastrogirl
sadly…
it isn’t me that is going to kill thi relationship..as i expected.
it is you and your need to smoke pot 4 times a day.
just so very sad. .
sexually active? it is a vagina NOT a volcano.
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